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Issit possible for guys and girls to ever be best friends and simply just that without any crush or feelings? I mean does it work? Issit even real?
You do have one, and have no feelings whatsoever towards them? What bout the other party? You sure they feel the same way? hmmm...
Lets be frank here, everyone knows guys and gals are never meant to be friends let alone best/close friends. When I say friends its not simply meant acquintance or colleagues but that level of knowing someone to some personal extend. So issit possible?
Or perhaps this is another case of bended rules by us?From the way I see it, there's a line drawn between friends and lovers and that line depends on the individual themselves. That specific line are varied accordingly so maybe, the way you treat them might seem pretty normal to you but to them it might meant affection instead. Coz, for one thing, you can never know whats on the other party's mind. So ok, you guys shared stuff, rant, confessed and all but claims its just platonic relationship with no feelings attached eh? You do know sharing discreet information of one's life is a sign of trust, comfort and most of all closure.. So if they are your bestie, would you indulge them your secrets? What bout that special someone? What kind of indulgence to they acquire? Are you sure its platonic and not an act of denial? .. Think again..Hmm...
Alright then, lets say its possible to be bestie between sexes but, how long can it last before it overweighs the comfort zone? How long can you fight against the overwhelming force of nature? You can lie to everyone but you can never lie to yourself. We are humans and opposite attracts applies so how could you claim them to be your best pal while subconsciously knowing that you both might someday be an item? Even if that thought was never on your mind, the world is everchanging. We change. You change. They change. One way or another, believe me when I say love will eventually sprawl out. Theres no other way to prove then to let nature takes its own course.
Its nature's law; could be bent, but can never write it off.
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